Women's groups are trying to make the word "bossy" into hate speech, if directed at women. See an article from USA Today on the topic. This is more pointless, over-the-top victimology.
Bossy people are a pain in the backside regardless of what gender they claim or how their personal plumbing is arranged. Men or women, it makes no difference.
Good leaders know how to get people to want to do what needs doing without bluster. With bluster or bossiness, effectiveness drops off, resistance arises.
